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reasons my boyfriend does love and care about me

he says that he does
he helps me when i need something, even when it's an inconvenience to him
he helps me with my laundry
he helps me carry my groceries and other things
he drove me to another city than the one we were meant to shop in because i wanted to buy a sewing machine that was out of stock in the first city
he took me to the emergency room late in the evening, stayed there with me through the night and woke up early the next morning to take me back there for an x-ray, took care of me in the private room, waiting room, and took care of my things during the x-ray
held me so tight in the rain at on the parking lot in the middle of the night when we were allowed to go home
gave me his jacket to wear when i was cold
gave me a hug in front of everyone when i gave his jacket back to him
let me sit in his lap for long periods of time and ran his fingers through my hair
understood my reluctance to be skin to skin or cuddle anywhere but outside or in the car for several weeks even though we were in love with each other
never judges me
did not mind or find it strange that i used to and still do view him as a fatherly prescence in my life
listens to what i say and wants to talk about the things that bother me, even if i find them to be stupid
thanked me the first time i let him touch my chest
would have accepted and wanted to still be near me even if i was sure that i never wanted to have sex
never pushed me past my limits when boundaries had been established
listens to me when i manage to tell him what's wrong
loves spending time alone with me and being around me
made me finish several times without asking me to do anything for him
thanked me when i did
sang with me in the car
wanted me to meet his family and wanted to meet mine
says that he wants to marry me
says that being by himself for years was worth it because he ended up meeting me
says i'm much more than he deserves and that he wants to do more for me
stuck by me through all my weird behaviors and concerns before he even became my boyfriend
respected me being very particular about touch
tells me that i'm so pretty
wants me to succeed and be happy, even when it doesn't relate to him
saves his sexuality for me
agreed to baptize me before we had sex the first time
agreed to have sex outside the first time to help calm my nerves
careful not to hurt me more than necessary the first few times we had sex
offers to help me when i find something difficult
says his life is better with me in it
says i help him get things done
says i take care of him in a way that no other partner has before
he fell in love with me even though his antidepressants numb his emotions
he lets me be who i am but is glad to see me change and be independent
he loved me even when i was sadder, more difficult to deal with and less fun
the way he looked at me and pet me in the emergency room
never has asked me not to talk about my fears or trauma
treats me like an adult
does not try to control me or tell me to be realistic when i feel ambitious
wants me to be his last
says sweet things about me when talking to others
wants me to meet his friends
always waited and let me take my time when i was unsure of where i wanted our relationship to go
says there is nobody else for him
he described a dream about a woman who was trying to seduce him as a nightmare because she was not me
he says he did not know sex could be as good as it is with me
he says he is always looking forward to it
he still wanted me when i was insane and planning to die
every day we spend together is good, no matter what we do
he thought i was beautiful and interesting from the first time he saw me
he can hold me tight for hours at a time
he says i inspire him to do more with his life
he says he misses me every night
he trusts me deeply
he never gets angry
he likes the things about me that i don't
he wants me to be happy
he is willing to live an unconventional and difficult life with me if that's what i want
he does not mind that i have strange interests and an unusual style
he says that i make him feel seen and understood
he is not ashamed to ask me for help when he needs it
he wants to take me on trips
he takes equal part in planning anniversary activites
he feels at home with me